The Fringe Benefits of Failure

Jan 042010

The knowledge that you have emerged wiser and stronger from setbacks means that you are, ever after, secure in your ability to survive. You will never truly know yourself, or the strength of your relationships, until both have been tested by adversity. Such knowledge is a true gift, for all that it is painfully won, and it has been worth more than any qualification I ever earned.
-J.K. Rowling (Commencement Address, Harvard Alumni Association)

You can read the entire speech with video HERE (CLICK HERE).

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J.K. Rowling Speaks at Harvard Commencement from Harvard Magazine on Vimeo.

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