How do you know if a thing is good for you?

Jan 312008

One can test whether a thing is good or not in this way:
If it causes you to lose interest in life
and thereby wish to cease in existence,
such a thing is not good for you.
If it gives you interest and enthusiasm,
if it ignites in you the desire
to live your life as you have never lived before,
such thing is good.
Be not deceived however,
for there are things
we cling on to
not so much as to live life
but to have a means of escape from it,
to make us forget
how dead we really are within.

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2 Responses to “How do you know if a thing is good for you?”

Janet says:

February 1, 2008 at 9:58 pm

How very true–a good reminder!

Have a blessed weekend!
Janet

gebs says:

February 1, 2008 at 1:14 am

Love your words. Thanks.

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